Queen of Sleep is back from no net reception!
I have been on a writing course and a holiday in areas of England with no internet access at all. Who knew they existed in 2011?
It’s been lovely, restful and absolutely amazing and that is just an understatement. I have pushed my energy levels to the max but been with people I trust so I have felt absolutely safe. I wonder why it seems so difficult for some people to understand what living with narcolepsy is really like and so easy for some others. It is probably a combination of life experience and empathy skills that makes all the difference. Imagination and the ability to put yourself in another person’s shoes/situation and really feel what it could be like to have/be “……….” The ability to feel empathy is only the beginning. Some need processing time or will try to help straight away. For example, I can cure you with XYZ. Maturity in facing difference can only come from knowing that 1. Never give advice without having been asked. 2. Listen (properly) 3. realise and accept that you and your history (point of view) is one of many and that your advice might not be right and yet that at the same there could be one of many right answers. People are quick to judge and quick to categorise in order to feel more secure. I have pushed many potential friends away by being too upfront and in your face with explaining EVERYTHING about narcolepsy. Perhaps it’s a stage you have to go through when dealing with and accepting a condition. I feel that I have now left it behind and my personality has started to come forward more.
There are stages in life that could affect the quality of sleep for women, for example pregnancy, here is a summary of these:
20’s and 30’s: Check your thyroid. My neurologist checked my thyroid as part of the Narcolepsy diagnosis. New moms can get postpartum thyroiditis, which 5 to 10 percent of women develop in the year following delivery. If you’re too jumpy to sleep or have extreme fatigue postpartum, see your doctor.
20’s and 30’s: Depression – feeling blue can cause sleep difficulties some antidepressants may also have sleep related side effects. Ask your doctor about your antidepressants!
40’s: Check when/how often you go to the toilet at night! It could be a urinary tract infection because .”Decreasing estrogen levels in the mid-40s leads to a thinning of the lining of the vagina and bladder, which makes perimenopausal women more prone to infection,” says Dr. Corio, author of The Change Before The Change. Talk to your doc if you notice a change in your bathroom habits.
40’s: Deep sleep decreases in your late 40’s making night-time awakenings more frequent. Improve your restorative sleep (called delta or slow-wave sleep) by exercise more. Aim for 30 minutes of moderate aerobic activity on most days, suggests Wilfred R. Pigeon, PhD, director of the Sleep and Neurophysiology Research Lab at the University of Rochester Medical Center.
Your 50s+: Check the prescription drugs you may be taking for high blood pressure and cholesterol. They could affect your sleep. Check with your GP and if it is a potential problem ask if it might improve your sleep to take the pills in the morning instead of the evening.
Your 50s+: Check the prescription drugs: statins for cholesterol-control can deplete your body’s muscles of co-enzyme Q10, a natural protein required for normal functioning of muscle cells; the resulting muscle aches might make falling asleep a challenge. Ask your GP/Neurologist/Sleep Doctor if you might benefit from taking a co-Q10 supplement.
Your 50s+: Snoring and Sleep Apnea (OSA). There is a greater possibility to develop sleep apnea after the menopause when progesterone levels drop and it’s common to gain some weight.